Breaking Down The Myth

My Annual ‘Valentine’s Ruins Perfectly Good Relationships’ Post

February 11, 2012
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My Annual ‘Valentine’s Ruins Perfectly Good Relationships’ Post

  You want to buy something? Buy this shirt: http://iamshoebox.spreadshirt.com/   I’m married and very happy. I guess saying that makes it kind of suspect, but just trust me on this, life is beautiful. After working in colleges and high schools for the past few years, I have been able to witness the insanity of Valentine’s...

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Breaking Down The Myth: I’m Doing It For The Kids (Baby Momma Drama)

March 4, 2011
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Breaking Down The Myth: I’m Doing It For The Kids (Baby Momma Drama)

Guest writer: Keosha Samuel “You mean to tell me now that your baby mama knows we are getting serious she is finally ready to be the woman you want her to be? You really believe she now wants what you want out of a relationship? She is ready to be serious and you are...

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Breaking Down The Myth: Relations

March 1, 2011
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Breaking Down The Myth: Relations

Guest Writer: Robert R. Jennings Women are in control of their relationships based on their ability to trust their mate/s, maintain sex appeal, and control their sexual prowess. Males are  accused of unfaithfulness in relationships far too much. A woman’s ability to keep her man stimulated can lead to a non cheating partner as...

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Breaking Down the Myth: Open Your Mouth

February 25, 2011
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Breaking Down the Myth: Open Your Mouth

(If you’re a “freak” take your mind out of the gutter) Guest Writer EnVogue Price Ever seen your man out with that chick and swore he was flirting with her? Did you even take out the time to see who the chick was? It could’ve been his cousin or rather attractive auntie. Lack of...

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Breaking Down the Myth: Is It Possible to Love An "Ugly" Person?

February 1, 2011
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Breaking Down the Myth: Is It Possible to Love An "Ugly" Person?

You can fall for a guy like this, can’t you? Ben Johnson wrote, “Our beauty is not ours,” in a play. There are a ton of cliche’s in regard to “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” I currently teach at a local community college and in the midst of a lecture on...

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Breaking Down The Myths: The Funny Thing About Relationship Advice

January 31, 2011
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Breaking Down The Myths: The Funny Thing About Relationship Advice

It’s Sunday morning. My wife and kids are getting ready to head to church, and I am getting ready to hit the streets in the pursuit of dividends by selling kicks. This is not what is on my mind. As I watch my son make his breakfast and my wife help my daughter get...

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Part 2: Stages: A Handbook on Men and Relationships – Chapter 21

January 7, 2011
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Part 2: Stages: A Handbook on Men and Relationships – Chapter 21

Chapter 21 I was on top of the world after that night. My life seemed so perfect. We shared our first week with each other talking and feeling excited about us. It all seemed like a dream. I never expected to be this happy. The second week passed and Flip and I had talked...

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Part 2: Stages: A Handbook on Men and Relationships – Chapter 18

January 4, 2011
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Part 2: Stages: A Handbook on Men and Relationships – Chapter 18

Chapter 18 I thought about what I would say to Janice on the drive to the house. How would I begin? I had been practicing certain lines like, “I want this thing to work but it’s gonna take both of us.” Nothing seemed real. It all sounded rehearsed. I figured when I saw her...

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Stages: A Handbook on Men and Relationships – Chapter 17

January 3, 2011
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Stages: A Handbook on Men and Relationships – Chapter 17

Chapter 17 Stage Three amendment: When a man has come to a fork in the road, he can’t sit and take his time. He has to choose and accept what may come. No turning back and going to look down the other road. Keep straight and accept it. Allow God to do his job...

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Stages: A Handbook on Men and Relationships – Chapter 16

January 2, 2011
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Stages: A Handbook on Men and Relationships – Chapter 16

Chapter 16 A reflection can be found anywhere, or it can come at anytime. Two of the most important reflections I’ve had in my adulthood happened because of a conversation with a brother three years younger than myself. Flip, like he said about Tina, was brought into my life for a reason. People coming...

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